Kelly at Cordelia Calls It Quits featured a fine essay on how you need to break in order to grow. And all this time I've been thinking that I needed to check myself BEFORE I wrecked myself. Good to know.
Finally, over at Credit Karma, there was a list describing how nice guys should haggle. This would have been awesome to have read a couple of weeks ago when I was negotiating on the cost of framing a couple of things (a signed playbill and some Disney artwork). When I didn't get my price, I burned the place down. That wasn't very nice.